Tag Archives: surrender to God

The Pursuit

The Pursuit of God

Beloved, you were created to know God intimately, to walk with Him in deep communion. This is the highest and holiest calling of your life: the pursuit of God. The Scriptures speak of this pursuit with urgency and promise. “You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13 AMP). This is no idle search. It is an all-consuming journey that calls for the surrender of our entire being.

God’s Word reminds us of His nearness: “Draw near to God [with a contrite heart] and He will draw near to you” (James 4:8 AMP). He is not distant, but He waits for us to turn our hearts fully to Him, to press past the distractions and noise of the world into His holy presence. The pursuit of God is not for the casual or complacent; it is for those whose hearts burn with a longing to know Him as He truly is.

The Simplicity of Seeking Him

Scripture shows us that God calls us to approach Him with childlike faith. Jesus said, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, unless you repent [that is, change your inner self—your old way of thinking], and become like children [trusting, humble, and forgiving], you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3 AMP). To pursue God, we must let go of the pride and self-reliance that complicate our approach to Him.

Our pursuit must be stripped down to its essence: a longing to be with God. This simplicity is echoed in David’s cry: “One thing I have asked of the Lord, and that I will seek: That I may dwell in the house of the Lord [in His presence] all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty [the delightful loveliness and majestic grandeur] of the Lord and to meditate in His temple” (Psalm 27:4 AMP). David’s singular focus reminds us that to pursue God is to desire Him above all else.

Gazing on His Glory

The pursuit of God is not merely about asking for His blessings or guidance; it is about worshiping Him for who He is. Moses cried out, “Please, show me Your glory!” (Exodus 33:18 AMP). This longing to behold God is the heartbeat of every true seeker. In His presence, words often fall away, and we are left in silent awe of His majesty.

To worship God is to recognize that He alone satisfies the deepest hunger of the soul. “As the deer pants [longingly] for the water brooks, so my soul pants [longingly] for You, O God. My soul [my life, my inner self] thirsts for God, for the living God” (Psalm 42:1-2 AMP). This thirst is quenched not by fleeting experiences, but by dwelling in His presence continually.

Dying to Self, Living for Him

The pursuit of God requires a life fully surrendered. Jesus declared, “Whoever wants to be My disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow Me” (Luke 9:23 AMP). To pursue God, we must let go of our own ambitions, desires, and plans. We must echo the heart of John the Baptist: “He must increase [in prominence], but I must decrease” (John 3:30 AMP).

When we abandon self-reliance and pride, we open the door to deeper intimacy with God. This surrender is not loss but gain. “The kingdom of heaven is like a very precious treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid again; then in his joy he goes and sells all he has and buys that field [securing the treasure for himself]” (Matthew 13:44 AMP). God Himself is the treasure worth everything.

The Invitation

Dear reader, this is your invitation to pursue God with all your heart. Do not settle for knowing about Him when you can know Him intimately. Do not be satisfied with shallow faith when you are called to deep waters. God’s presence is the place where your soul finds its true home. He is inviting you to come closer, to seek Him with purity and passion.

The pursuit of God is not a fleeting effort but a lifelong journey. It is not marked by striving but by surrender. Come before Him, lay aside the weights of this world, and behold the One who satisfies every longing of your heart.

Prayer

Lord, You are our greatest treasure and the deepest desire of our hearts. Forgive us for the times we have pursued lesser things. Teach us to seek You with childlike faith and to come before You with simplicity and surrender. Draw us deeper into Your presence, and let our hearts burn with longing to know You more. May we lay down our lives in pursuit of You, for You alone are worthy. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

See Also

Obedience

The Lord Desires Obedience, Not Sacrifice

Throughout Scripture, God’s consistent desire is for His people to obey His Word and follow His commands from the heart. He is not moved by empty rituals or outward displays of religion. Rather, He seeks a relationship with us that is rooted in trust, faith, and love. This truth is clearly expressed in 1 Samuel 15:22, where Samuel rebukes King Saul: “Has the Lord as great a delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as in obedience to the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams” (AMP).

In this story, Saul disobeyed God’s clear instructions. Instead of fully destroying the Amalekites and their possessions as God commanded, Saul kept the best of the livestock, claiming he intended to offer them as a sacrifice to the Lord. But God was not pleased. Saul’s disobedience revealed a heart that valued appearances and personal preferences over God’s authority.

Obedience in Our Daily Lives

We, too, face similar temptations today. For instance, a business owner may donate large sums to charity but fail to operate their business with integrity, cutting corners or exploiting employees. A student might attend church regularly but lie or cheat when it’s convenient. These actions may seem small, but they reveal a heart that prioritizes external appearances over internal surrender to God’s will.

In Micah 6:6-8, the prophet underscores this truth: “With what shall I come before the Lord, [and bow myself before God on high? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with yearling calves? Will the Lord be delighted with thousands of rams, or with ten thousand rivers of oil? … He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you except to be just, and to love [and to diligently practice] kindness (compassion), and to walk humbly with your God [setting aside any overblown sense of importance or self-righteousness]?” (AMP).

Obedience means aligning our lives with God’s Word—choosing justice over injustice, humility over pride, and love over selfish ambition. These are the actions that delight the heart of God because they flow from genuine faith and surrender.

Jesus’ Example of Perfect Obedience

The ultimate model of obedience is Jesus Christ. He humbled Himself, submitting fully to the Father’s will, even unto death on the cross. Philippians 2:8 says, “After He was found in [terms of His] outward appearance as a man, He humbled Himself [still further] by becoming obedient to the Father to the point of death, even death on a cross” (AMP). Jesus’ obedience paved the way for our redemption, showing us that true love for God is proven in action, not just words or religious rituals.

The Danger of Sacrifice Without Obedience

Sacrifices, offerings, or religious practices without obedience are meaningless. Isaiah 1:11-17 captures God’s frustration with Israel’s empty rituals: “What are your multiplied sacrifices to Me [without your repentance]? … Bring your worthless offerings no longer [It is futile; their incense is repulsive to Me] … Learn to do good. Seek justice. Rebuke the ruthless. Defend the fatherless. Plead for the [rights of the] widow” (AMP).

The message is clear: God does not want lip service or outward displays of piety. He desires hearts fully surrendered to Him, willing to obey His commands in every area of life.

Choosing Obedience Today

Ask yourself: Are there areas in your life where you have chosen convenience, ritual, or appearance over obedience? Perhaps it’s forgiving someone who wronged you, tithing faithfully, or standing firm in your faith at work or school. God calls us to obey Him, even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient, because obedience is an act of trust and worship that pleases His heart.

Let us echo the words of Psalm 51:16-17: “For You do not delight in sacrifice, or else I would give it; You are not pleased with burnt offering. My [only] sacrifice [acceptable] to God is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart [broken with sorrow for sin, thoroughly penitent], such, O God, You will not despise” (AMP).

A Prayer for Obedience

Heavenly Father, You are holy and righteous, deserving of all our love and obedience. Forgive us for the times we have chosen our ways over Yours, prioritizing rituals or convenience instead of surrendering to Your perfect will. Teach us to walk humbly with You, to seek justice, and to love mercy. May we follow Jesus’ example of perfect obedience, trusting that Your commands are for our good and Your glory. Help us to love You more deeply and to reflect that love in our actions each day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

To obey is better than sacrifice. Let us choose obedience daily, trusting that it leads us closer to God and His purposes for our lives.

See Also

Calls

Do You Know the Good Shepherd?

Jesus declares, “I am the Good Shepherd, and I know [without any doubt those who are] My own and My own know Me [and have a deep, personal relationship with Me]” (John 10:14 AMP). These words are not just an invitation; they are a declaration of intimacy, security, and belonging. The question is not whether the Shepherd knows you—He knows every detail of your life. The question is: Do you know Him?

The Good Shepherd does not offer a distant, mechanical relationship. He offers Himself fully—His protection, His provision, and His presence. He longs for a deep, personal relationship with you. Yet, this relationship requires more than casual acknowledgment. It demands that you press into Him daily, forsaking the distractions and counterfeit comforts of this world.

Jesus also said, “My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me” (John 10:27 AMP). To truly know the Shepherd, you must learn to recognize His voice. Are you listening? Are you carving out time to sit in the stillness of His presence, reading His Word and allowing Him to speak to your heart? In a world filled with competing voices, the voice of the Good Shepherd is your anchor. He will never lead you astray.

The challenge is this: Do you trust Him enough to follow Him wherever He leads? Jesus said, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me” (Luke 9:23 AMP). Following the Shepherd requires surrender—laying down your plans, your desires, and your pride. But the reward is eternal. “I came that they may have life, and have it in abundance [to the full, till it overflows]” (John 10:10 AMP).

Beloved, the Good Shepherd laid down His life for you. He bore the cross so you could walk in freedom. What will you lay down for Him? Will you leave behind the sins that entangle you? Will you cast off the fear that keeps you from walking boldly in your calling? Will you surrender your heart fully to Him, trusting that He knows what is best for you?

The time to respond is now. Let today be the day you take a step closer to the Good Shepherd. Spend time in His Word, meditate on His promises, and pour out your heart to Him in prayer. Remember, “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you” (James 4:8 AMP).

A Prayer for Surrender

Lord Jesus, my Good Shepherd, I hear Your voice calling me. I come to You now, laying down everything that keeps me from fully knowing You. Teach me to trust You in every area of my life. Help me to follow where You lead, even when the path is uncertain. Give me ears to hear Your voice above the noise of the world and a heart that is fully surrendered to You. I want more of You, Lord—less of me and more of You. Draw me closer each day, and let my life glorify Your holy name. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

He is calling you. Will you follow?

See Also

Spiritual

The Fruit of the Spirit: Cultivating Christlike Character

The Apostle Paul reminds us in Galatians 5:22-23, “But the fruit of the Spirit [the result of His presence within us] is love [unselfish concern for others], joy [inner peace], peace [tranquility], patience [not the ability to wait, but how we act while waiting], kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such things, there is no law” (AMP). These qualities are not mere traits to admire but evidence of God at work in us. To bear this fruit, we must abide in Christ (John 15:5), allowing the Holy Spirit to transform us from the inside out. Here are practical ways to cultivate each fruit in our daily lives:

1. Love

• Life Application: Start each day by asking God to help you see others as He does. Practice acts of love by serving someone without expecting anything in return—whether by listening to a friend in need or helping a neighbor.

• Prayer Focus: Ask God to teach you to love sacrificially and unconditionally, as Jesus loves you.

2. Joy

• Life Application: Shift your focus from circumstances to gratitude. Keep a journal of daily blessings, no matter how small, and celebrate the goodness of God in all things.

• Prayer Focus: Pray for joy rooted in the assurance of God’s promises, even in trials.

3. Peace

• Life Application: Practice surrendering worries to God. When anxiety arises, pause and pray Philippians 4:6-7 aloud, trusting that God’s peace will guard your heart and mind.

• Prayer Focus: Ask God to replace turmoil with His peace and help you trust His timing and plans.

4. Patience

• Life Application: Instead of reacting in frustration, count to ten and remind yourself that God is patient with you. Practice patience by intentionally slowing down in areas like driving, parenting, or waiting in lines.

• Prayer Focus: Pray for the grace to respond to delays or difficulties with a calm and trusting heart.

5. Kindness

• Life Application: Look for opportunities to bless someone daily. This could mean offering a word of encouragement, a helping hand, or simply a smile.

• Prayer Focus: Ask God to soften your heart and help you see how you can reflect His kindness to those around you.

6. Goodness

• Life Application: Commit to living with integrity. Make choices that honor God, even when no one is watching. Volunteer or support a cause that aligns with God’s heart.

• Prayer Focus: Ask for discernment to choose what is good and upright in every situation.

7. Faithfulness

• Life Application: Be consistent in your walk with God. Set aside daily time for prayer and Scripture reading, and honor your commitments to others, even when it’s inconvenient.

• Prayer Focus: Pray for the strength to remain steadfast in faith and responsibilities.

8. Gentleness

• Life Application: Speak with humility and grace, even when correcting or disagreeing with someone. Practice responding with a soft tone rather than harsh words.

• Prayer Focus: Ask God to help you reflect His gentleness in all your interactions.

9. Self-Control

• Life Application: Identify areas where you struggle with discipline, such as overeating, overspending, or speaking impulsively. Commit these areas to God and take small, intentional steps to develop self-control.

• Prayer Focus: Pray for strength to resist temptation and walk in obedience to God’s will.

A Life Rooted in the Spirit

The fruit of the Spirit is not something we produce by sheer effort; it flows from a life deeply rooted in Christ. As we draw nearer to God, His Spirit shapes us into the image of Christ. This transformation requires daily surrender, consistent prayer, and a commitment to live by His Word.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of Your Holy Spirit, who produces fruit in our lives. Help us to abide in You so that we may grow in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Lord, we cannot do this on our own—work in us for Your glory. Teach us to seek more of You and less of ourselves each day. May our lives reflect Your light and draw others closer to You. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

A Call to Abide in Him

Beloved, hear this truth: the fruit of the Spirit is not born from our striving, but from our surrender. As branches cannot bear fruit apart from the vine, so we cannot produce this fruit apart from Christ. Jesus declared, “I am the Vine; you are the branches. The one who remains in Me and I in him bears much fruit, for [otherwise] apart from Me [that is, cut off from vital union with Me] you can do nothing” (John 15:5 AMP).

It is God who brings forth the fruit—not by our strength or willpower, but through our obedience, abiding, and dependence on Him. Let us lay aside our pride and self-reliance and press deeper into His presence. Daily, we must surrender our hearts to His pruning, trusting that His hand is kind and His purpose is good.

Do not be discouraged if the fruit seems slow to appear, for the Gardener knows the seasons. Remain steadfast in your pursuit of Him, for the closer you walk with God, the more His Spirit will overflow through you. Abide, surrender, and press into Him anew each day, that His life may flow freely and His fruit may flourish in you.

Beloved, remain in Him, for He is faithful, and He will complete the work He has begun in you.

See Also

Love

The Call to Love God: How His Love Transforms Us from the Inside Out

Beloved, God calls you to a love that is deep, pure, and life-changing. It’s a call to leave behind the fading allure of this world and embrace the enduring love of our Creator. When God asks you to love Him with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength, He is inviting you into a relationship that will change you from within. This call to love is no mere sentiment—it is a holy invitation to be reshaped and renewed, to become more like Him, and to live as His beloved child in a world that is passing away.

Answering the Call to Love God

The love of God is unlike any love this world offers. It is eternal, pure, and steadfast, a love that was set upon you even before you took your first breath. “We love because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19). His love is active and powerful, drawing us away from sin and into His light, where our hearts are purified, our minds are renewed, and our spirits find peace. As you respond to God’s call, you will find that His love is a force that transforms, heals, and leads you to holiness.

Loving God is not simply obeying commands or following rules; it is a wholehearted surrender, a desire to delight in Him as He delights in you. “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might” (Deuteronomy 6:5). When you set your heart on God, He draws near to you, filling you with a love that satisfies every longing. To love Him is to place Him above all else, to let His voice be louder than the temptations of this world, to let His will become your path.

The Transforming Power of God’s Love

God’s love changes you from the inside out. In a world where sin abounds, His love calls you to holiness, setting you apart as His own. As His love fills you, it purifies you, casting out every impurity, breaking chains of fear, and freeing you from guilt and shame. “Perfect love casts out fear” (1 John 4:18), for there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. In His love, you can live boldly, secure in the knowledge that you are accepted, forgiven, and redeemed.

When you answer the call to love God, your heart begins to reflect His heart. Your desires shift, aligning with His will; your joy becomes rooted in His presence. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). This joy is not rooted in earthly pleasures but in a relationship with the One who knows you fully and loves you unconditionally. As you surrender to His love, your life becomes a witness, showing others the beauty of a heart transformed by grace.

Loving Others Through God’s Love

To love God is also to love others. Jesus taught us, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another” (John 13:34). As you are filled with His love, you will find yourself able to extend grace, compassion, and forgiveness to those around you. His love equips you to care for others selflessly, just as He has loved you. This love shines in a world desperate for kindness, mercy, and hope, and it brings glory to God as you reflect His heart.

An Eternal Hope in God’s Love

The call to love God is a call to eternal life. When you set your heart on Him, you are not simply choosing a path for today—you are securing an eternal hope. The things of this world may fade, but “the one who does the will of God lives forever” (1 John 2:17). Nothing in this life can separate you from His love, and this promise gives you strength to endure every trial, for His love is your anchor. The love of God is an unshakeable foundation, a love that holds you steady and assures you that you belong to Him forever.

Answering God’s Call to Holiness

Beloved, God calls you not only to love Him but to be holy as He is holy. This love demands everything, but it also offers everything in return. In His love, you find your purpose, your joy, and your eternal rest. Let go of the fleeting pleasures of this world and embrace the holy invitation that God sets before you. Choose to live for Him, to love Him with all your heart, and to find your life hidden in Christ.

The call to love God is the greatest invitation you will ever receive. It is a call to leave behind the emptiness of worldly pursuits and step into a life filled with His presence, His peace, and His power. Let His love transform you, and let your love for Him be a light in the darkness, a testimony of His goodness, and a foretaste of the eternal joy that awaits you. Answer the call, and let His love change you from the inside out.

See Also:

Perseverance, Redemption

More of God, Less of Us: Embracing the Refiner’s Fire

Beloved, the calling on our hearts resounds with simplicity and power: More of God, less of us. This echoes in the lives of those who yearn to walk humbly, to surrender fully, and to invite His presence into every corner of their lives. John the Baptist proclaimed, “He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:30, AMP). This truth transforms us as we step aside, allowing God to fill us with His Spirit, replacing our pride and self-reliance with His will, His peace, and His love.

The Refiner’s Fire: A Holy Transformation

God leads us through seasons of refining—not to break us, but to purify and shape us. In Malachi, we are reminded, “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and He will purify the sons of Levi and refine them like gold and silver” (Malachi 3:3, AMP). Though it may be painful, this process is holy and essential. Rather than praying for escape, we ask God for more of Him. Anchoring our hearts in His Word, we pray, “Lord, purify our hearts, sanctify our minds, transform us completely!”

Pursuing Purity of Heart

To see God clearly, we must have a pure heart, undivided and fully devoted. Jesus affirmed, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God” (Matthew 5:8, AMP). We seek God’s cleansing, asking Him to remove anything unworthy, praying with David, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right and steadfast spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10, AMP). In this purity, we find strength to press into His presence, eager for His refining touch.

Renewing Our Minds with His Truth

God’s refining work touches not only our hearts but also our minds. The Apostle Paul exhorts us, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2, AMP). As our minds are renewed by His Word, we are liberated from worldly patterns and able to think with the mind of Christ. Freed from doubt and confusion, our thoughts align with His will, reflecting His truth and wisdom.

Embracing Transformation

In this journey, we do not seek superficial change but true transformation. “All of us… can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like Him as we are changed into His glorious image” (2 Corinthians 3:18, AMP). This divine work unfolds as we yield, allowing God’s Spirit to shape us. With every step, we invite more of Him into our lives and release our old selves into His hands.

Stand Firm in His Promise

Beloved, let us not shrink back from His refining work. Embrace the breaking, the fire, and the tears that accompany His purifying touch. With hearts yielded, cry out, “More of You, Lord!” In surrender, He fills us with His Spirit, remaking us into vessels of His glory. Stand firm in His Word, holding onto His promise: “He who has begun a good work in you will continue to perfect and complete it” (Philippians 1:6, AMP). Let your life testify to His power, grace, and transforming love, revealing the beauty of more of God and less of us.

Key Scriptures for Reflection:

• “He must increase, but I must decrease.” — John 3:30, AMP

• “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver…” — Malachi 3:3, AMP

• “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” — Matthew 5:8, AMP

• “Create in me a clean heart, O God…” — Psalm 51:10, AMP

• “Do not be conformed to this world…” — Romans 12:2, AMP

• “He who has begun a good work in you…” — Philippians 1:6, AMP

Call to Action: Seek more of God daily. As you walk through life’s refining moments, embrace the transformation that draws you nearer to Him. Pray for a pure heart, renewed mind, and open spirit, ready to be filled with His presence.

See Also

Balance, Wisdom

Identity in Christ

Beloved, Christianity is not a task to complete, nor a weekly appointment to attend. It is a deep, transformative calling—one that defines who we are at the core. Yet, many of us struggle with treating our faith as a checklist, marking off church attendance and Bible studies as though they were routine obligations. How can we shift from doing Christianity to being followers of Christ? How do we embrace our identity in Christ without overcommitting and burning out?

Finding Your Identity in Christ

When Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come,” he is inviting us to recognize that our entire identity shifts when we belong to Christ. We are no longer defined by our accomplishments, failures, or earthly roles. Instead, we are children of God, created for His purpose. But how do we live this out daily?

  1. Shift from Doing to Being
    Our Christian walk must go beyond actions; it must reach into the depths of our heart and become who we are. This happens when we stop striving to do Christian things and instead allow the Spirit of God to transform our character. When prayer, worship, and service are born out of love for Christ, they cease to be tasks on a list and become expressions of our new identity in Him.
  2. Redefine Yourself Around Christ
    Embracing our identity in Christ means letting go of the labels the world places on us. As Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” You are a masterpiece designed by God, and He has prepared a unique path for you. By immersing yourself in His Word and seeking His purpose, you begin to live a life shaped by Christ, not by the expectations of the world or even the church.

Counting the Cost of Discipleship

While the Christian life is full of joy and peace, it is also one of surrender and sacrifice. Jesus said in Luke 14:28, “For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost?” This is a vital part of our walk with Christ. Serving Him is a privilege, but it requires us to balance our commitments, to ensure that we are following His will, not simply overcommitting out of obligation.

In our eagerness to serve, it is easy to take on too much. Church events, ministry roles, and community outreach all offer opportunities to glorify God. But if we are not careful, we risk burnout. We must count the cost of our commitments, ensuring that our energy and time are aligned with God’s purpose.

Working as Unto the Lord

Paul reminds us in Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” This verse shifts our perspective. Whether we are serving in the church or working at our jobs, our efforts are an offering to God. When we approach our work with this heart of devotion, we guard ourselves against the exhaustion that comes from trying to do too much. Instead, we focus on doing what God has called us to do, and doing it well.

But working as unto the Lord also means recognizing that we are finite. There are times when saying “no” is an act of obedience, allowing us to prioritize time with Christ and protect the sacred relationship He desires with us. A servant’s heart is not measured by how much we do, but by the faithfulness and love with which we do it.

Balancing Commitment and Rest

Beloved, rest is as much a part of our walk with Christ as service. Jesus Himself withdrew to solitary places to pray (Mark 1:35). He taught us not just the value of work but also the importance of retreating into the presence of God to be refreshed and renewed. When we overcommit, we leave little room for this sacred time with the Lord.

There was a season in my life when I said “yes” to every opportunity that arose in the church—leading Bible studies, organizing events, serving in every ministry I could. While I began with a joyful heart, over time, I became exhausted and disconnected from the very One I was trying to serve. I had taken on more than God had asked of me, and I was paying the price.

It was only when I slowed down and repented that I realized God wasn’t asking me to do more for Him; He was asking me to be with Him. He was calling me to a place of intimacy and surrender, where my service flowed out of a heart filled with His presence, not out of a sense of obligation. In counting the cost, I learned the importance of balancing work and rest, ensuring that my identity in Christ was not overshadowed by my busy schedule.

Calling Each Other Higher in Christ

The journey of redefining yourself around Christ is not one we walk alone. As members of the body of Christ, we are called to encourage one another, spurring each other on to greater love and good works (Hebrews 10:24-25). But this call must be done with wisdom, mindful that each of us has a unique path and pace.

In your family or church, you may find that not everyone is on board with this idea of finding their identity in Christ. Don’t be discouraged. Lead by example, living authentically in Christ and encouraging others to seek Him in their own time. Speak truth with love, but also allow the Spirit to work in their hearts. Just as Christ is patient with us, so too must we be patient with others.

When we call others higher, let us do so from a place of humility, remembering that Christ calls us to rest in Him and not burn ourselves out. Encourage your brothers and sisters to count the cost, to serve with purpose, and to prioritize intimacy with God over busyness.

Conclusion: Rest in Christ, Serve with Wisdom

To live out your identity in Christ means to count the cost of your discipleship. It means serving with joy and wisdom, working as unto the Lord while also prioritizing time in His presence. Avoid the trap of overcommitting and burning out, remembering that Christ’s yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30). As you walk this path, you will discover that your life, far from being a series of tasks, is an ongoing expression of the love and purpose God has placed within you.

Let us call each other higher in Christ, but let us do so with hearts that have found rest in Him. For it is not in our doing that we find our identity, but in our being—being children of God, called according to His purpose, resting in His love, and walking in the fullness of who He has created us to be.

A Prayer for Finding Our Identity in Christ

Heavenly Father,
We come before You, knowing that our true identity is found in You. As Your Word says in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come.” Help us to live out this truth each day, not merely through what we do but in the fullness of who we are in You. We surrender our striving and ask for Your grace to lead us as we seek to walk as new creations.

Lord, we know that You have prepared good works for us to walk in (Ephesians 2:10), but we also recognize that You call us to rest in Your presence. Teach us to count the cost of discipleship, as Jesus warned us in Luke 14:28, so we do not overcommit or serve out of obligation. Give us the wisdom to balance our work with the peace and rest You provide, for we know that Your yoke is easy, and Your burden is light (Matthew 11:30).

Father, strengthen us to work as unto You and not for human approval, as Colossians 3:23 reminds us. Let everything we do flow from a heart that seeks to glorify You. Guide us to encourage and call others higher in their walk with Christ, always speaking truth in love and pointing them to the rest and strength that can only be found in You.

May we lay down our plans and surrender our schedules, trusting in Your leading. Anchor us in Your Word, and let Your Spirit guide our every step. Let our lives be a reflection of Your grace and a testimony of the transforming power of Christ. As we serve, may we always abide in the rest and peace that only You can provide.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

See Also