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Replacing Lust with Self-Control

Lust is a fire that consumes without ever satisfying. It stirs within the fallen nature, promising pleasure but delivering bondage. The world celebrates lust as freedom, but the Word of God reveals the truth: lust enslaves the soul. And yet, we are not left defenseless. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, we are called to walk in holiness, mastering the flesh and replacing lust with self-control.

“But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.” — Galatians 5:16 (NASB)

To master the flesh is to choose surrender over struggle, discipline over desire, and intimacy with God over indulgence in sin. We must understand that lust is not just physical—it’s spiritual. It is rebellion against the order of God, a longing for fulfillment apart from Him. The flesh says, “Take what you crave.” But the Spirit whispers, “Wait on the Lord.”

A War We All Face

No believer is exempt from this battle. Even Paul confessed the tension in his own body: “For I do not do the good I want, but I practice the very evil that I do not want.” — Romans 7:19 (NASB). The war between flesh and Spirit rages daily. But God gives us weapons to fight.

To master the flesh:

  1. Guard your eyes – What you allow through your eyes reaches your heart. Shut the door to temptation.
  2. Renew your mind – Replace distorted thoughts with the truth of Scripture. Fill your mind with God’s Word.
  3. Flee temptation – Don’t linger in the presence of sin. Run with holy urgency.
  4. Fast and pray – Teach your flesh to submit through spiritual discipline and intimacy with God.

Illustration: Joseph Ran

When Potiphar’s wife cornered Joseph with seductive intent, he didn’t entertain the thought. He didn’t weigh the consequences or try to pray in the moment of temptation. “But he left his garment in her hand and fled, and went outside.” — Genesis 39:12 (NASB).

He ran. Why? Because Joseph feared God more than he feared man. He knew staying even a second longer would be a second too long. In fleeing temptation, he preserved something far more valuable than his reputation—his righteousness.

You may lose something when you flee—a position, an opportunity, the admiration of others—but you gain what cannot be bought: a clean conscience before God. Joseph lost his garment, but he kept his purity. And God raised him up in due time.

Fleeing isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom. When lust comes knocking, run. Don’t reason with it. Don’t try to prove your strength. Don’t linger and pray that the feeling fades. Flee. And in your running, run straight to El Shaddai, your refuge and strength.

Replacing Lust with Self-Control

“Now as for you, discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness…” — 1 Timothy 4:7 (NASB)

Lust can’t be managed—it must be crucified. And self-control is not the absence of desire but the redirection of desire toward God. When we walk in self-control, we’re saying, “I trust God’s timing. I believe His ways are better than mine.” That trust produces peace.

Self-control is not behavior modification. It is Spirit transformation. It grows in the soil of surrender. It blooms when we delight in the Lord more than in our impulses. It’s not about being less human—it’s about becoming more like Yeshua, who was tempted in every way, yet without sin.

The one who replaces lust with self-control learns to enjoy the beauty of purity, the strength of obedience, and the freedom of walking in the light. Every time you say no to the flesh, you’re saying yes to something greater—the fullness of life in the presence of God.

You Were Made to Walk in Freedom

You are not a prisoner to your cravings. If Yeshua lives in you, the chains have already been broken. The flesh may shout, but the Spirit empowers. It is possible to walk in victory. But you must be intentional. You must guard your gates, feed your spirit, and run from sin.

“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all people, instructing us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously, and in a godly manner in the present age.” — Titus 2:11–12 (NASB)

Grace does not excuse lust—it teaches us to overcome it. God is holy, and He calls you to be holy. He will never leave you to fight alone. When you fall, get back up. When you’re weak, call on His strength. When the fire of temptation rises, run—because victory waits on the other side of obedience.

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Prayer

Abba Father, I come before You confessing my weakness. I cannot master the flesh without Your Spirit. I renounce every craving that sets itself against Your will, and I choose to flee temptation like Joseph. Fill me with power to walk in self-control. Make me pure in thought, pure in heart, and pure in action. Let the fire of Your holiness burn away every impure desire. Teach me to crave Your presence more than pleasure, and help me walk in victory every day. I want more of You, Lord, and less of me. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

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Personal Holiness

Eyes of Contentment

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Introduction to the Series

This article marks the beginning of a 12-part series called “From Struggle to Strength: Overcoming Sin Through Christ.” Each piece will shine a biblical light on one of the everyday sins that quietly entangle our hearts and hinder our walk with God. From pride to fear, from lust to laziness, we will not only expose the subtle power of these sins—but also reveal the victorious path God has laid out for us to overcome them through His truth, Spirit, and grace.

We begin with the lust of the eyes, a sin as ancient as Eden and as modern as your phone screen. Through Scripture, practical wisdom, and the hope we have in Yeshua, this series will help you fight sin not with shame—but with freedom. Let us walk this journey together, fixing our eyes on the One who makes us whole.

Overcoming the Lust of the Eyes

Do you often find yourself chasing after what you see—desiring newer things, better possessions, or the lifestyles others portray? You’re not alone. The lust of the eyes affects us all, subtly shaping our desires and leaving us restless and dissatisfied. But the good news is, by focusing on contentment in God, you can start overcoming the lust of the eyes.

From the very start, humanity has wrestled with this struggle. Eve’s temptation began when she saw fruit that appeared desirable (Genesis 3:6 NASB). That one look opened the door to sin, dissatisfaction, and sorrow. In today’s digital age, the temptation is amplified as we’re constantly shown idealized images that stir envy and discontent. By recognizing these triggers, you can take the first step toward overcoming the lust of the eyes.

Yet God calls you to something greater: contentment. True contentment doesn’t depend on external circumstances or possessions. As the Apostle Paul wisely said, “I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am” (Philippians 4:11 NASB). Paul didn’t stumble into this peace; he actively pursued it. You can, too, by overcoming the desires of the eyes.

To overcome the lust of the eyes, you must intentionally shift your focus from temporary pleasures to eternal treasures. Fix your gaze on Jesus (Yeshua), the one who fulfills every genuine need. Pray earnestly with the psalmist, “Turn my eyes away from looking at what is worthless, and revive me in Your ways” (Psalm 119:37 NASB).

Here are three practical steps to cultivate contentment and overcome the lust of the eyes:

  1. Control Your Vision: Limit exposure to things that trigger envy or dissatisfaction, choosing instead media and content that build you spiritually and aid in overcoming the lust.
  2. Prioritize Scripture: Daily engage with God’s Word, allowing it to shape your perspective and desires, focusing on overcoming the temptations of the eyes.
  3. Practice Gratitude: Regularly thank God for your blessings, big and small. Gratitude shifts your focus away from what you lack toward what you’ve graciously received. This gratitude can play a significant role in overcoming the lust of the eyes.

You were created not to chase endless desires but to experience deep fulfillment in God Himself. The more clearly you see Him, the less appealing the world’s fleeting pleasures become, assisting in overcoming the lust of the eyes. True contentment awaits as you anchor your vision in His eternal promises.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, guide my eyes to focus on what truly matters—You and Your kingdom. Help me overcome desires that lead me away from You. Teach me contentment, fill my heart with gratitude, and let my satisfaction always be found in You alone. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

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Maturity

From Faith to Love

In this life, you stand in the tension between your sinful body and the Spirit’s call to holiness. Though you are redeemed by the blood of Yeshua, your flesh still wrestles with weakness. Yet, God has shown you the path to victory—a journey that moves from faith to love, each step deepening your devotion and anchoring your life in an unconditional love for Jesus.

Faith → The Foundation of Your Walk

It begins with faith. Without it, you cannot please God. “And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him” (Hebrews 11:6, NASB). Faith is your entrance into salvation, but it is also the path you must walk daily. Faith believes when the eyes cannot see. Faith trusts when the body feels weak. Faith declares that Jesus is worthy, no matter the cost.

Virtue → Living Set Apart

Faith must grow into virtue. Virtue is moral excellence—a decision to reject sin and embrace righteousness. It is saying “no” to the fleeting pleasures of the flesh and “yes” to the eternal reward of walking with Christ. Every time you choose purity over compromise, you declare your love for Jesus. Every moment you seek what is right, you reflect His character. This is virtue: not just believing but living as one who belongs to Him.

Knowledge → Pursuing God’s Truth

But virtue must grow into knowledge. You cannot love Jesus deeply if you do not know Him. “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6, NASB). Open His Word. Seek His heart. Let His truth shape your mind and direct your steps. The more you know Him, the more you love Him. And the more you love Him, the deeper you long to obey.

Self-Control → Mastering the Flesh

Knowledge strengthens self-control. This is where you master your desires, refusing to be ruled by the flesh. “Like a city that is broken into and without walls is a person who has no self-control” (Proverbs 25:28, NASB). Each moment of surrender says, “Jesus, You are greater than my desires.” Self-control is not about restraint for its own sake but about choosing Christ over every fleeting temptation.

Perseverance → Standing Through Trials

From self-control comes perseverance. The trials will come. The enemy will whisper, “Give up.” But perseverance presses on. “And not only this, but we also celebrate in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance” (Romans 5:3, NASB). It is here that your love for Jesus is proven—not in ease, but in endurance. You may fall, but you rise again. You may weep, but you press forward. Because love does not quit.

Godliness → Reflecting His Heart

Perseverance births godliness. It is here that your life begins to reflect His heart. Godliness is not perfection, but daily surrender. It is the quiet decision to say, “Lord, less of me and more of You.” It is walking humbly, serving faithfully, and loving deeply. Your life becomes an offering, pleasing to the One who saved you.

Brotherly Kindness → Loving Like Christ

Godliness overflows into brotherly kindness. You cannot love God and hate your brother. “The one who loves his brother and sister remains in the light, and there is nothing in him to cause stumbling” (1 John 2:10, NASB). True love looks beyond faults and embraces others with mercy. Brotherly kindness celebrates progress, bears with weakness, and offers forgiveness. It loves as Christ loves—sacrificially and patiently.

Love → The Crown of Maturity

And to brotherly kindness, you add love—the highest and holiest calling. “Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8, NASB). This is the love that drove Yeshua to the cross. It is love that never gives up, never grows cold, and never turns away. This love looks like sacrifice. It feels like obedience. And it lasts forever.

Unconditional Love for Jesus Sustains the Journey

Each step in this journey is sustained by your unconditional love for Jesus. When you stumble, it is His love that lifts you. When you feel weak, it is His Spirit that strengthens you. When you are tempted, it is His grace that empowers you.

To love Jesus unconditionally is to love Him beyond circumstances, beyond emotions, and beyond failures. It is to say, “Even when I fall, I will rise again for You. Even when I struggle, I will press on for You.”

This is the love that endures. This is the love that transforms. This is the love that finishes the race.

Prayer:

Father, I come before You, humbled and desperate. Lead me from faith to love. Teach me virtue, fill me with knowledge, and strengthen me with self-control. Help me to persevere through every trial and to reflect godliness in every step. Let brotherly kindness overflow from my heart, and above all, let me love as You love—deeply, sacrificially, and unconditionally.

Yeshua, I long to love You without condition. When I fall, lift me. When I grow weary, strengthen me. When I wander, call me home. Let Your love shape every part of me, until I reflect Your heart in all I do.

In Your holy name, Amen.

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