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Humility in Church Leadership: Saved by Grace

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God’s grace is the cornerstone of our faith, reminding us that we are all sinners saved by His mercy and love. Despite our good works, if we perform them in our own strength and for our own glory, they are merely “filthy rags” before Him. Isaiah 64:6 (AMP) emphasizes this truth: “For we have all become like one who is [ceremonially] unclean [like a leper], and all our deeds of righteousness are like filthy rags.”

God does not call the equipped; He equips the called. He uses those who are available and willing, regardless of their status, abilities, or past sins. This truth humbles us, teaching us to see ourselves as God sees us: redeemed sinners continually being sanctified by His grace. Romans 3:23-24 (AMP) reminds us, “since all have sinned and continually fall short of the glory of God, and are being justified as a gift by His grace, through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus.”

We must guard against pride and the temptation to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. Pride can deceive us into believing we are more valuable or useful to God than others. Yet, God may choose to work through a child on the street or the most unlikely person, for He shows no partiality. James 4:6 (AMP) states, “But He gives us more and more grace [through the power of the Holy Spirit, to defy sin and live an obedient life that reflects both our faith and our gratitude for our salvation]. Therefore, it says, ‘God is opposed to the proud and haughty, but [continually] gives [the gift of] grace to the humble [who turn away from self-righteousness].'”

Sanctification is a process God works within us, not something we achieve on our own. Philippians 1:6 (AMP) assures us, “I am convinced and confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will [continue to] perfect and complete it until the day of Christ Jesus [the time of His return].” We are all in different stages of this journey, yet none of it is due to our merit; it is solely by God’s grace.

In the body of Christ, the fivefold ministries—apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers—are gifts given by God to equip the saints for the work of ministry. Ephesians 4:11-12 (AMP) explains, “And [His gifts to the church were varied and] He Himself appointed some as apostles [special messengers, representatives], some as prophets [who speak a new message from God to the people], some as evangelists [who spread the good news of salvation], and some as pastors and teachers [to shepherd and guide and instruct], [and He did this] to fully equip and perfect the saints (God’s people) for works of service, to build up the body of Christ [the church].”

These ministries are not positions to be earned or coveted; they are given according to God’s grace and purpose. They serve to build us up, making us better vessels for His work. We are reminded that “every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above; it comes down from the Father of lights” (James 1:17 AMP).

Titles in Church Leadership

The question of why some leaders insist on titles such as “The Right Reverend,” “His Holiness,” or other common titles is indeed significant. Titles can serve practical purposes:

  1. Identification and Clarity: Titles help church members and the broader community understand the roles and responsibilities of different leaders. This can be especially useful in larger congregations where personal relationships with every member are not feasible.
  2. Respect and Authority: In many cultures, titles convey respect and acknowledge the authority and responsibility of the office. This helps maintain order and respect within the church body.

A Call to Humility

However, the insistence on titles can become problematic if it fosters pride or a sense of superiority. Jesus warned against this very attitude in Matthew 23:8-12 (AMP): “But do not be called Rabbi (teacher); for One is your Teacher, and you are all equally brothers. Do not call anyone on earth [who guides you spiritually] your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. Do not let yourselves be called leaders or teachers; for One is your Leader (Teacher), the Christ. But the greatest among you will be your servant. Whoever exalts himself shall be humbled; and whoever humbles himself shall be raised to honor.”

The true mark of a leader in the body of Christ is humility and a servant’s heart. Jesus, our ultimate example, said in Matthew 20:28 (AMP), “just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many [paying the price to set them free from the penalty of sin].”

Leaders should therefore be cautious about the use of titles, ensuring that they are used appropriately and humbly, without becoming a source of pride. The focus should always be on serving God and His people, recognizing that any authority and responsibility are given by God’s grace alone.

Conclusion

God’s grace, not our efforts or status, defines our value and usefulness in His kingdom. We are all sinners saved by grace, and any good that comes from us is because of His work in us. Let us remain humble, recognizing that our sanctification and the gifts we receive are all evidence of His boundless love and mercy. In this understanding, we find true unity and purpose in serving Him.

Self Reflection

  1. Do I rely on God’s grace for my salvation, or do I sometimes trust in my own good works?
  2. How often do I take pride in my accomplishments rather than giving glory to God?
  3. Am I truly available and willing for God to use me, regardless of my status or abilities?
  4. How do I view others in the body of Christ? Do I see them as equals, or do I sometimes feel superior?
  5. Do I humbly accept God’s process of sanctification in my life, or do I try to achieve it on my own?
  6. How do I respond to the gifts and ministries given to others in the church? Do I see them as a blessing, or do I feel envious or entitled?
  7. When I serve in a leadership role, do I use my title to serve others or to elevate myself?
  8. How do I react when someone without a formal title or position demonstrates strong faith or leadership qualities?
  9. In what ways can I cultivate a servant’s heart, following the example of Jesus?
  10. How do I maintain a focus on God’s grace and mercy in my daily walk with Him?

A Prayer for Humility and Grace

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with hearts full of gratitude for Your boundless grace and mercy. We acknowledge that we are all sinners saved by Your grace alone, and that any good within us is a testament to Your work in our lives. Lord, we confess that too often we rely on our own strength and take pride in our accomplishments, forgetting that all we have and all we are is a gift from You.

Father, we ask for Your forgiveness for the times we have looked down on others or felt superior. Help us to see each person through Your eyes, recognizing that we are all equally loved and valued by You. Teach us to be truly available for Your purposes, willing to be used by You in any way, regardless of our status or abilities.

Lord, as we journey through the process of sanctification, remind us that it is Your work within us that makes us more like Christ. Help us to humbly accept Your guidance and correction, trusting in Your perfect plan for our lives.

We thank You for the fivefold ministries and the gifts You have given to build up Your church. May we receive these gifts with humility and use them to serve others, always pointing back to Your glory and not our own. When we find ourselves in positions of leadership, keep us grounded in the example of Jesus, who came not to be served, but to serve.

Father, cultivate within us a servant’s heart. Help us to follow Jesus’ example in every aspect of our lives, always putting others before ourselves and seeking to glorify You in all that we do. Keep us mindful of Your grace and mercy, that we may walk humbly with You every day.

In Jesus’ name, we pray.

Amen.

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Spiritual Beauty and Meekness

In the Word of God, spiritual beauty is not merely external allure; it profoundly reflects God’s grace and glory within us. This beauty, deeply intertwined with the virtue of meekness, finds its ultimate fulfillment in the assurance of belonging to God. Various scriptures highlight the essence of divine love, purity, meekness, humility, and our covenant relationship with God. Notably, God emphasizes the importance of not being prideful, as pride disrupts our connection with Him and hinders the true spiritual beauty He desires for us.

Spiritual Beauty

Psalm 149:4 (AMP) states, “For the Lord takes pleasure in His people; He will beautify the humble with salvation and adorn the afflicted with salvation.” Here, we see that God delights in His people and beautifies them through salvation. This transformative process enhances the soul, particularly for the meek who humbly belong to Him.

Psalm 90:17 (AMP) emphasizes, “And let the [gracious] favor of the Lord our God be on us; confirm for us the work of our hands—Yes, confirm the work of our hands.” The favor of God brings beauty to our endeavors, reflecting His grace in our lives.

Isaiah 61:3 (AMP) also speaks of this beauty, saying, “To grant to those who mourn in Zion the following: to give them a turban instead of dust [on their heads, a sign of mourning], the oil of joy instead of mourning, the garment [expressive] of praise instead of a disheartened spirit. So they will be called the trees of righteousness [strong and magnificent, distinguished for integrity, justice, and right standing with God], the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.” This verse shows that God transforms our sorrow into beauty, signifying His restorative power and the spiritual beauty He bestows upon His people.

Meekness

Psalm 25:9 (AMP) tells us, “He leads the humble in justice, and He teaches the humble His way.” God guides and teaches those who are meek, shaping their spiritual beauty through a life of righteousness and obedience to His ways. This affirms their belonging to Him.

Psalm 37:11 (AMP) states, “But the humble will [at last] inherit the land and will delight themselves in abundant prosperity and peace.” The meek, with their quiet strength and trust in God, are promised a blessed inheritance. This promise reflects their inner spiritual beauty and secure belonging to God.

Psalm 76:9 (AMP) declares, “When God arose to establish judgment, to save all the humble of the earth.” Here, we see that God’s salvation is extended to the meek, underscoring that their spiritual beauty is recognized and honored by God.

Isaiah 11:4 (AMP) speaks of the Messiah, “But with righteousness and justice He will judge the poor, and decide with fairness for the downtrodden of the earth.” The meek are assured of God’s just and righteous judgment, reflecting the beauty of His fair and compassionate nature, demonstrating that they are His treasured people.

Matthew 5:5 (AMP) echoes this sentiment, “Blessed, inwardly peaceful, spiritually secure, worthy of respect are the gentle (the kind-hearted, the sweet-spirited, the self-controlled), for they will inherit the earth.” Jesus affirms that the meek are blessed, their spiritual beauty manifesting in their gentle and self-controlled spirit, securing their place as God’s children.

Belonging to God

Exodus 19:5 (AMP) declares, “Now therefore, if you will indeed obey My voice and keep My covenant, then you shall be My own special possession and treasure from among all peoples of the world, for all the earth is Mine.” This verse highlights the covenant relationship between God and His people, where obedience and meekness secure their belonging to Him as His treasured possession.

Deuteronomy 7:6 (AMP) emphasizes, “For you are a holy people [set apart] to the Lord your God; the Lord your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be a people for His own possession [that is, His very special treasure].” This passage underscores that our spiritual beauty and meekness are intrinsic to our identity as God’s chosen and beloved people.

1 Peter 2:9 (AMP) reminds us, “But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a [special] people for God’s own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies [the wonderful deeds and virtues and perfections] of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.” This verse beautifully ties together our spiritual beauty, meekness, and the profound reality of belonging to God. We reflect His glory and proclaim His virtues.

Humility and Pride

Proverbs 11:2 (AMP) warns, “When pride comes [boiling up with an arrogant attitude of self-importance], then come dishonor and shame, but with the humble [the teachable who have been chiseled by trial and refined by suffering] is wisdom and soundness of mind.” This verse teaches us that pride leads to dishonor, whereas humility and meekness bring wisdom and stability, enhancing our spiritual beauty.

Proverbs 16:18 (AMP) further cautions, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” This scripture underscores the danger of pride, reminding us that a meek and humble spirit is essential for maintaining our connection with God and reflecting His beauty.

James 4:6 (AMP) declares, “But He gives us more and more grace [through the power of the Holy Spirit, to defy sin and live an obedient life that reflects both our faith and our gratitude for our salvation]. Therefore it says, ‘God is opposed to the proud and haughty, but [continually] gives [the gift of] grace to the humble [who turn away from self-righteousness].'” This passage highlights that God actively opposes pride but generously gives grace to the humble, enabling us to live lives that reflect His spiritual beauty.

In conclusion, spiritual beauty is a divine reflection of God’s love, purity, and holiness within us, deeply intertwined with the virtue of meekness and humility. This beauty is cultivated through a relationship with God, characterized by salvation, inner purity, and a gentle spirit. As we grow in our faith, our spiritual beauty, enhanced by meekness and humility, becomes a testament to God’s transformative power and a beacon of His glory in the world. Our belonging to God as His chosen people underscores this beauty, making us His treasured possession, set apart to reflect His divine light. By avoiding pride and embracing humility, we maintain our connection with God and continue to reflect His glory in our lives.

Self Reflection

  1. How do I see the concept of spiritual beauty reflected in my own life?
  2. In what ways can I cultivate meekness in my daily interactions?
  3. How does my relationship with God influence my sense of belonging?
  4. What steps can I take to avoid pride and embrace humility?
  5. How do I recognize and appreciate God’s transformative power in my life?
  6. What scriptures spoke to me most deeply about spiritual beauty and meekness?
  7. How can I reflect God’s grace and glory more effectively in my community?
  8. How do I ensure that my actions and attitudes align with being God’s treasured possession?
  9. What practical ways can I enhance my inner purity and gentle spirit?
  10. How do I handle situations where pride might disrupt my connection with God?

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

In the name of Your beloved Son, Jesus Christ, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude and reverence. O Lord, we praise You for Your boundless grace and the beauty of Your holiness. You adorn the meek with salvation and crown the humble with Your favor. We humbly seek Your presence, desiring to reflect Your divine glory within our lives.

Lord, we acknowledge that true beauty lies not in outward appearances but in the gentle and quiet spirit that is precious in Your sight. Teach us, O God, to walk in meekness, to embody the humility of Christ, and to cast aside all pride. Let our hearts be teachable, our spirits gentle, and our souls ever aligned with Your will.

As Your chosen people, set apart and dearly loved, we ask that You continually transform us through the renewing of our minds. May we always remember that we belong to You, O God, our Creator and Redeemer. Let our lives be a testament to Your grace, a reflection of Your love, and a beacon of Your light in this world.

Father, guide us in Your truth, lead us in Your paths, and teach us Your ways. Fill us with Your Holy Spirit, that we may live in accordance with Your divine purposes. Grant us the wisdom to discern Your will and the courage to follow wherever You lead.

We pray that our spiritual beauty, cultivated through meekness and humility, would shine brightly for all to see. Let our actions and attitudes glorify You, drawing others to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. May we, Your people, be known for our love, our gentleness, and our unwavering faith.

O Lord, let Your favor rest upon us, confirming the work of our hands. We surrender all that we are to You, knowing that apart from You, we can do nothing. Strengthen us to walk in obedience, to serve with joy, and to live as Your treasured possession.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

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Embracing Childlike Faith: The Divine Blessing and Role of Children in Scripture

Beloved, listen to these words and let them resonate within your heart. The blessing of children is a gift from God, bestowed upon us from the beginning of creation. As it is written, “God blessed them; and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it’” (Genesis 1:28). Children are a heritage from the Lord, and their presence testifies to His divine favor. “Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth. How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them” (Psalm 127:4-5).

The Blessing of Children in Scripture

From the days of old, God’s faithful servants rejoiced in the blessing of children. For example, Noah found comfort in his son, as it is said, “He named him Noah, saying, ‘This one will give us comfort from our work and from the toil of our hands arising from the ground which the Lord has cursed'” (Genesis 5:29). Additionally, the Lord promised Hagar, “I will greatly multiply your descendants so that they will be too many to count” (Genesis 16:10). Throughout Scripture, the blessings of children bring joy, hope, and strength to families. The psalmist declares, “Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house, your children like olive shoots around your table” (Psalm 128:3). Truly, children are a source of delight and a sign of God’s favor.

Emulating Childlike Faith

We must also remember the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, who said, “Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these” (Mark 10:14). In His infinite wisdom, Jesus reveals the necessity of a childlike heart to enter the kingdom of heaven. He states, “Truly I say to you, unless you change and become like little children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). Jesus treasures the innocence, trust, and humility of children and commands us to emulate these qualities.

The Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Corinthians, urges us to embrace this childlike purity: “Brothers and sisters, do not be children in your thinking; be infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature” (1 Corinthians 14:20). Furthermore, Peter exhorts us to “long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation” (1 Peter 2:2). These scriptures remind us that while we grow in wisdom and understanding, our hearts must remain pure and humble before God.

The Role of Families in Nurturing Faith

As we reflect upon these truths, let us embrace the role of children in our lives and communities. Parents, guide your children with love and wisdom, nurturing their faith and teaching them the ways of the Lord. “Children’s children are the crown of old men, and the glory of children is their father” (Proverbs 17:6). Fill our homes with the laughter and joy of children, as foretold by the prophet Zechariah, “The streets of the city will be filled with boys and girls playing in its streets” (Zechariah 8:5).

Indeed, the family unit holds a significant role in nurturing and guiding children. John 16:21 describes the joy a mother feels when her child is born, a profound and universal experience. Paul, in 1 Timothy 5:14, encourages young women to marry, bear children, and manage their households, reinforcing the family unit’s importance in society. As parents and guardians, we must lead by example, showing our children the path of righteousness and the love of God.

Conclusion: A Call to Childlike Faith

Beloved, let us heed the call to childlike faith, approaching our Heavenly Father with the same trust and openness that children display. Jesus said, “Whoever receives one child like this in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me does not receive Me, but Him who sent Me” (Mark 9:37). May we welcome and cherish children, seeing them as precious gifts from God and emulating their pure and humble faith.

In doing so, we fulfill the words of our Savior and honor the divine blessing bestowed upon us. Let us rejoice in the Lord, for His gifts are good and His love endures forever. Amen.

A Prayer for Embracing Childlike Faith

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking to embrace the childlike faith that pleases You. We thank You for the gift of children, who remind us of innocence, trust, and pure love. Help us to nurture and guide them in Your ways, teaching them to know and follow You.

Lord, grant us the grace to approach You with the same openness and trust that children display. Purify our hearts, and renew our spirits so that we may receive Your kingdom with joy and humility. Strengthen our families, filling our homes with Your love, peace, and the laughter of children.

We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

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Biblical Approach to Hard Truths: Navigating with Compassion and Wisdom

{This is a short one, a mini journal entry}

When the truth cuts like a knife, following a biblical approach to hard truths is essential. This approach involves a combination of compassion, humility, and forgiveness, guided by the teachings of Jesus and the apostles.

The Importance of a Biblical Approach to Hard Truths

When faced with difficult situations, seeking wisdom and guidance from God is the first step. James 1:5 (AMP) says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of [our benevolent] God, who gives to everyone generously and without rebuke or blame, and it will be given to him.”

Speak the Truth in Love

Speaking the truth in love is crucial in a biblical approach to hard truths. Ephesians 4:15 (AMP) instructs, “But speaking the truth in love [in all things—both our speech and our lives expressing His truth], let us grow up in all things into Him [following His example] who is the Head—Christ.”

Be Humble and Gentle

Approach the situation with humility and gentleness. Galatians 6:1 (AMP) advises, “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any sin, you who are spiritual [that is, you who are responsive to the guidance of the Spirit] are to restore such a person in a spirit of gentleness; keeping a watchful eye on yourself, so that you are not tempted as well.”

Forgive and Seek Reconciliation

Forgiveness is a key element in a biblical approach to hard truths. Matthew 6:14-15 (AMP) reminds us, “For if you forgive others their trespasses [their reckless and willful sins], your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others [nurturing your hurt and anger with the result that it interferes with your relationship with God], then your Father will not forgive your trespasses.”

Encourage and Build Up

Aim to encourage and build up others, even when delivering hard truths. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (AMP) says, “Therefore encourage and comfort one another and build up one another, just as you are doing.”

Be Patient and Understanding

Patience and understanding are vital components of a biblical approach to hard truths. Colossians 3:12-13 (AMP) states, “So, as God’s own chosen people, who are holy [set apart, sanctified for His purpose] and well-beloved [by God Himself], put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience; bearing graciously with one another, and willingly forgiving each other if one has a cause for complaint [against another]; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so should you forgive.”

By following these biblical principles, we can navigate situations where the truth cuts deeply with grace and compassion, reflecting the love and wisdom of God.

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Prayer: Secular Leaders

Heavenly Father,

I come before You today to lift up the leaders of our world, our nation, our state, and our local communities. You have placed each of these individuals in their positions of authority, and I pray for Your wisdom, guidance, and strength to be upon them.

Lord, I ask for Your blessings upon the leaders of the world, that they may seek peace and justice in their actions. Guide them to make decisions that honor You and promote the well-being of all people.

For our country, especially as we approach the upcoming 2024 presidential election, I pray for a spirit of unity and understanding among all citizens. May the candidates be guided by integrity and a genuine desire to serve the nation. Help us to choose leaders who will govern with wisdom and righteousness, and let Your will be done in this election process (Romans 16:20).

In our state, grant our leaders the discernment to address the unique challenges we face. May they be inspired to create policies that reflect Your love and justice, and work towards the common good.

Locally, I lift up our community leaders. Bless them with the ability to listen to and address the needs of the people they serve. Help them to foster a sense of community and cooperation among us.

I also pray for the peace and protection of Israel. May Your hand be upon this nation, guiding its leaders and people towards lasting peace and security (Psalm 122:6).

Finally, Lord, I ask that Your grace and fellowship be with all our leaders, guiding them to make decisions that honor You and serve the people with compassion and humility (2 Corinthians 13:14; 2 Thessalonians 3:18).

In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.