In our walk with God, there are times when we might find ourselves negotiating with Him in prayer, seeking His mercy and intervention. One of the most profound biblical examples of this is found in the story of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Abraham’s Negotiation with God
In Genesis 18, we see Abraham, the friend of God, engaged in a bold and earnest dialogue with the Almighty. God had revealed to Abraham His intention to investigate the grievous sin of Sodom and Gomorrah and to bring judgment upon these cities. Deeply concerned for the righteous who might live there, and moved by a sense of justice and compassion, Abraham approached God and said, “Will You indeed sweep away the righteous with the wicked? Suppose there are fifty righteous within the city; will You indeed sweep it away and not spare the place for the sake of the fifty righteous who are in it?” (Genesis 18:23–24, AMP).
Abraham’s negotiation with God is marked by humility and reverence. He acknowledges his own unworthiness, saying, “Now behold, I have ventured to speak to the Lord, although I am but dust and ashes” (Genesis 18:27, AMP). Yet, with each step, he continues to intercede, reducing the number from fifty to forty-five, then to forty, thirty, twenty, and finally ten. God, in His patience and mercy, agrees each time, demonstrating His willingness to listen to the prayers of His people.
Key Lessons from Abraham’s Prayer
This exchange between Abraham and God reveals several important truths about negotiating with God in prayer:
- Relationship with God: Abraham’s boldness in prayer stemmed from his close relationship with God. He was known as a friend of God (James 2:23), and this intimate relationship gave him the confidence to approach God with his requests. Our prayers, too, are strengthened by our relationship with God. As we draw near to Him, we learn to approach Him with boldness and trust.
- Intercession for Others: Abraham’s negotiation was not for himself but for the righteous in Sodom. This selfless intercession reflects a heart aligned with God’s compassion and justice. When we negotiate with God in prayer, it should come from a place of genuine concern for others and a desire to see God’s will and mercy prevail.
- God’s Mercy and Justice: The story shows that God is both just and merciful. He listens to Abraham’s pleas and is willing to spare the city if righteous people are found within it. This balance of justice and mercy is a recurring theme throughout Scripture, reminding us that God is compassionate and willing to relent from sending calamity when there is genuine repentance and righteousness.
- Humility in Prayer: Abraham’s approach was marked by humility. He recognized his position before God and did not demand but rather humbly requested. This humility is essential when we come before God, acknowledging His sovereignty and our dependence on His grace.
Other Biblical Examples of Negotiating with God in Prayer
Other biblical examples reinforce these truths. Consider Moses, who interceded for the Israelites when God was ready to destroy them for their idolatry. Moses pleaded, “Turn from Your fierce wrath, and relent from this harm to Your people” (Exodus 32:12, AMP). Moses reminded God of His promises to Abraham, Isaac, and Israel, and God relented from the disaster He had planned (Exodus 32:14).
In another instance, King Hezekiah, upon hearing of his impending death, turned his face to the wall and prayed earnestly. He reminded God of his faithful service and wept bitterly. God responded by sending the prophet Isaiah to tell Hezekiah that He had heard his prayer and seen his tears, and He would add fifteen years to his life (2 Kings 20:1–6).
Similarly, upon hearing Jonah’s prophecy of destruction, the people of Nineveh believed God, proclaimed a fast, and put on sackcloth. The king of Nineveh decreed that everyone should call urgently on God, turn from their evil ways, and from violence. When God saw their deeds and that they had turned from their wicked ways, He relented and did not bring upon them the destruction He had threatened (Jonah 3:5–10).
Modern Application of Negotiating with God
Imagine now a scenario where God has revealed that it is someone’s time to die, yet their family asks for prayers of healing, particularly in the case of a cancer diagnosis. This situation is delicate and complex. It calls for deep faith, compassion, and wisdom. While acknowledging God’s sovereignty and ultimate plan, we are also called to intercede earnestly for those we love.
In such prayers, expressing our heartfelt desire for healing is essential while submitting to God’s perfect will. We can ask God for a miraculous intervention, just as He extended Hezekiah’s life, or showed mercy to the Ninevites. However, we must also recognize that sometimes, God’s answer is different from what we hope for, yet His ways are always higher and His plans perfect.
Conclusion: The Power of Intercessory Prayer
These examples show that negotiating with God in prayer is appropriate and effective when approached with the right heart and motives. They demonstrate the power of intercessory prayer and the importance of humility, repentance, and a genuine desire for God’s will.
In the end, though we may wrestle with God in prayer, let us always submit to His sovereign will, trusting in His perfect wisdom and love. As we bring our deepest concerns before Him, may we find comfort in knowing that He hears us, cares for us, and desires to act according to His righteous character. Let us, therefore, approach the throne of grace with confidence, bringing our petitions and intercessions.