Beloved, Christianity is not a task to complete, nor a weekly appointment to attend. It is a deep, transformative calling—one that defines who we are at the core. Yet, many of us struggle with treating our faith as a checklist, marking off church attendance and Bible studies as though they were routine obligations. How can we shift from doing Christianity to being followers of Christ? How do we embrace our identity in Christ without overcommitting and burning out?
Finding Your Identity in Christ
When Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come,” he is inviting us to recognize that our entire identity shifts when we belong to Christ. We are no longer defined by our accomplishments, failures, or earthly roles. Instead, we are children of God, created for His purpose. But how do we live this out daily?
- Shift from Doing to Being
Our Christian walk must go beyond actions; it must reach into the depths of our heart and become who we are. This happens when we stop striving to do Christian things and instead allow the Spirit of God to transform our character. When prayer, worship, and service are born out of love for Christ, they cease to be tasks on a list and become expressions of our new identity in Him. - Redefine Yourself Around Christ
Embracing our identity in Christ means letting go of the labels the world places on us. As Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” You are a masterpiece designed by God, and He has prepared a unique path for you. By immersing yourself in His Word and seeking His purpose, you begin to live a life shaped by Christ, not by the expectations of the world or even the church.
Counting the Cost of Discipleship
While the Christian life is full of joy and peace, it is also one of surrender and sacrifice. Jesus said in Luke 14:28, “For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost?” This is a vital part of our walk with Christ. Serving Him is a privilege, but it requires us to balance our commitments, to ensure that we are following His will, not simply overcommitting out of obligation.
In our eagerness to serve, it is easy to take on too much. Church events, ministry roles, and community outreach all offer opportunities to glorify God. But if we are not careful, we risk burnout. We must count the cost of our commitments, ensuring that our energy and time are aligned with God’s purpose.
Working as Unto the Lord
Paul reminds us in Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” This verse shifts our perspective. Whether we are serving in the church or working at our jobs, our efforts are an offering to God. When we approach our work with this heart of devotion, we guard ourselves against the exhaustion that comes from trying to do too much. Instead, we focus on doing what God has called us to do, and doing it well.
But working as unto the Lord also means recognizing that we are finite. There are times when saying “no” is an act of obedience, allowing us to prioritize time with Christ and protect the sacred relationship He desires with us. A servant’s heart is not measured by how much we do, but by the faithfulness and love with which we do it.
Balancing Commitment and Rest
Beloved, rest is as much a part of our walk with Christ as service. Jesus Himself withdrew to solitary places to pray (Mark 1:35). He taught us not just the value of work but also the importance of retreating into the presence of God to be refreshed and renewed. When we overcommit, we leave little room for this sacred time with the Lord.
There was a season in my life when I said “yes” to every opportunity that arose in the church—leading Bible studies, organizing events, serving in every ministry I could. While I began with a joyful heart, over time, I became exhausted and disconnected from the very One I was trying to serve. I had taken on more than God had asked of me, and I was paying the price.
It was only when I slowed down and repented that I realized God wasn’t asking me to do more for Him; He was asking me to be with Him. He was calling me to a place of intimacy and surrender, where my service flowed out of a heart filled with His presence, not out of a sense of obligation. In counting the cost, I learned the importance of balancing work and rest, ensuring that my identity in Christ was not overshadowed by my busy schedule.
Calling Each Other Higher in Christ
The journey of redefining yourself around Christ is not one we walk alone. As members of the body of Christ, we are called to encourage one another, spurring each other on to greater love and good works (Hebrews 10:24-25). But this call must be done with wisdom, mindful that each of us has a unique path and pace.
In your family or church, you may find that not everyone is on board with this idea of finding their identity in Christ. Don’t be discouraged. Lead by example, living authentically in Christ and encouraging others to seek Him in their own time. Speak truth with love, but also allow the Spirit to work in their hearts. Just as Christ is patient with us, so too must we be patient with others.
When we call others higher, let us do so from a place of humility, remembering that Christ calls us to rest in Him and not burn ourselves out. Encourage your brothers and sisters to count the cost, to serve with purpose, and to prioritize intimacy with God over busyness.
Conclusion: Rest in Christ, Serve with Wisdom
To live out your identity in Christ means to count the cost of your discipleship. It means serving with joy and wisdom, working as unto the Lord while also prioritizing time in His presence. Avoid the trap of overcommitting and burning out, remembering that Christ’s yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30). As you walk this path, you will discover that your life, far from being a series of tasks, is an ongoing expression of the love and purpose God has placed within you.
Let us call each other higher in Christ, but let us do so with hearts that have found rest in Him. For it is not in our doing that we find our identity, but in our being—being children of God, called according to His purpose, resting in His love, and walking in the fullness of who He has created us to be.
A Prayer for Finding Our Identity in Christ
Heavenly Father,
We come before You, knowing that our true identity is found in You. As Your Word says in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come.” Help us to live out this truth each day, not merely through what we do but in the fullness of who we are in You. We surrender our striving and ask for Your grace to lead us as we seek to walk as new creations.
Lord, we know that You have prepared good works for us to walk in (Ephesians 2:10), but we also recognize that You call us to rest in Your presence. Teach us to count the cost of discipleship, as Jesus warned us in Luke 14:28, so we do not overcommit or serve out of obligation. Give us the wisdom to balance our work with the peace and rest You provide, for we know that Your yoke is easy, and Your burden is light (Matthew 11:30).
Father, strengthen us to work as unto You and not for human approval, as Colossians 3:23 reminds us. Let everything we do flow from a heart that seeks to glorify You. Guide us to encourage and call others higher in their walk with Christ, always speaking truth in love and pointing them to the rest and strength that can only be found in You.
May we lay down our plans and surrender our schedules, trusting in Your leading. Anchor us in Your Word, and let Your Spirit guide our every step. Let our lives be a reflection of Your grace and a testimony of the transforming power of Christ. As we serve, may we always abide in the rest and peace that only You can provide.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.