Throughout Scripture, God reminds us that His will for us is to be filled with joy, peace, and wholeness. Often, we find ourselves weighed down by negative words spoken over us, whether by parents, friends, or others who may not realize the power of their words. These words can be like curses, shaping our minds to believe we are less than who God says we are. But God does not call you to live under the weight of such words. Instead, He calls you to shake off the lies and live in the fullness of His promises.
The Bible speaks clearly about the power of words. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit” (Proverbs 18:21 AMP). Words can either build us up or tear us down. Sadly, when words of discouragement like “You’re dumb,” “You’re ugly,” or “You’ll never amount to anything” are spoken over us, they can create strongholds in our minds that hinder us from stepping into the life God has for us. However, these words do not define who we are. Only God’s truth does.
Shaking Off the Lies
The enemy wants us to believe that we are bound by the words spoken over us. He wants us to feel inadequate, unloved, and hopeless. Yet, the Word of God declares that we are not victims of our past. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation [reborn and renewed by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because spiritual awakening brings a new life]” (2 Corinthians 5:17 AMP). We must recognize that when we are in Christ, we are no longer subject to the curses others may have spoken over us. We are children of God, free and empowered by the Holy Spirit to live out His truth.
Jesus Himself came to set us free. “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He has anointed Me to preach the good news to the poor. He has sent Me to announce release (pardon, forgiveness) to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to set free those who are oppressed (downtrodden, bruised, crushed by tragedy)” (Luke 4:18 AMP). This freedom is not just from sin, but from every form of oppression, including the emotional and mental chains created by the hurtful words of others.
Breaking Free from Abuse
One of the most devastating lies the enemy whispers into the hearts of many women is that they deserve the abuse they are suffering. Whether it is physical, emotional, or verbal abuse, no one is called to endure such pain. Some women trapped in these situations are told by their abusers—or even believe themselves—that they are unworthy of love or that they are at fault. This is a lie from the enemy, designed to keep them bound in cycles of hurt.
God does not desire for anyone to live in fear or in pain. He speaks clearly about the treatment of His beloved children: “For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the Lord, ‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11 AMP). His heart is for healing, restoration, and wholeness, not for abuse or harm.
Abuse, in all its forms, is a violation of God’s design for relationships. Women who suffer in silence, believing they deserve the pain, need to hear the truth: You are loved beyond measure, and you are precious in His sight. In His eyes, you are worthy of dignity, respect, and love.
The Bible speaks directly to the protection of the oppressed. “The Lord also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble” (Psalm 9:9 AMP). If you are in a situation where you are being harmed, God is calling you to safety and healing. You do not deserve to be mistreated, and God longs to deliver you from the hands of those who harm you. You are His child, and He will shelter you under His wings.
The Path to Wholeness
God does not call us to settle for brokenness or unhappiness. He calls us to wholeness in Him. “I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance [to the full, till it overflows]” (John 10:10 AMP). This abundant life includes joy, peace, and love. God’s plan for us is not to live burdened by the words of others or trapped in abusive situations. He wants us to live free in His truth, knowing that we are His treasured possession.
A Call to the Lord
For those who have never experienced the love of God, you may have been living under the weight of others’ expectations, lies, or even abuse. But today, God is calling you into His embrace. He offers you a new life—free from the burdens you’ve been carrying, free from the lies you’ve believed. Jesus came to bring you hope, to restore your heart, and to offer you eternal life through faith in Him.
The Bible says, “For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world that He [even] gave His [One and] only begotten Son, so that whoever believes and trusts in Him [as Savior] shall not perish, but have eternal life” (John 3:16 AMP). God’s love for you is immense, and He invites you to receive the gift of His salvation through Jesus Christ. You don’t have to live in despair or carry the weight of brokenness any longer. Jesus is calling you to be made whole.
A Prayer for New Life
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, recognizing that we are in need of Your love and grace. There are those here today who have been weighed down by the lies spoken over them, believing they are unworthy of love or happiness. But we know that You offer us freedom in Christ, freedom from the chains of our past, and freedom from the hurtful words that have bound us.
Lord, I pray for those who are not yet believers, those who have not yet known the joy of walking with You. Touch their hearts today. Open their eyes to see that You have only good things in store for them. You have a future of hope, a life of abundance waiting for them. May they turn to You, Lord, and find peace in Your presence.
We pray for those who have been victims of abuse, Lord. Heal their broken hearts. Help them to see that they are precious in Your sight, that they do not deserve the pain they’ve endured. Let them know that You are their refuge, their strong tower in times of trouble.
Father, we thank You for sending Your Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins and to offer us eternal life. I pray now for anyone who is ready to accept Jesus as their Savior: that they would confess their sins, believe in their heart that Jesus is Lord, and receive the gift of new life.
Lord, we know that You call us to live in the joy of Your salvation, and I pray that each person here today would experience that joy, that peace, and that wholeness in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
If you have prayed this prayer today and invited Jesus into your life, know that God has begun a new work in you. He promises to never leave you nor forsake you, and His plans for you are good. He calls you to a life of joy and fullness in Him.
The Vision
I see the Lord, descending from the heavens, clothed in radiant light, His eyes burning with an indescribable love for His beloved. As He steps into the midst of your pain and burdens, His presence fills the air like the sweetest fragrance, overwhelming every fear and silencing every lie. His voice, like the sound of rushing waters, calls your name with tenderness, saying, “You are Mine, cherished beyond measure.”
He reaches out, and with a gentle touch, every weight falls away. His robe, the train of which fills the earth with His glory, wraps around you, and you are made whole. No longer bound by the lies of the past, you are lifted into the light of His truth. In this moment, you are held by the One who knows you fully and loves you beyond comprehension. He whispers, “You are precious in My sight. I am making all things new.”
Then, with eyes full of joy, He takes your hand, the One who made the heavens and the earth. Together, you begin to dance—every step drawing you deeper into His heart, every movement healing wounds you thought would never fade. As you spin in His embrace, your eyes are opened to a heavenly sight: the angelic hosts surrounding you, majestic and mighty, standing guard with swords of fire. These are the ones He has placed around you to protect and defend you.
In this sacred dance, you realize you are never alone. The Creator of all rejoices over you, and His angels encamp around you. His love shields you, His presence fills you, and you are safe in His arms, cherished for all eternity.
